I get many of these (loads ) hate to say it but some autistic folk too. I get we don’t agree on the same thing and we all have different opinions. But I’m not going to sit here have a full blow discussion argument.

We call it agree to disagree and on my way I will go. I have stayed away from social media a lot because its a toxic hell hole. Some bullies some people that just want to make peoples lives hell for the fun of it because they get kicks out of it.

I use twitter as platform for blogs and talking to other autistic folk or fitness people etc. And instagram for fitness/ food / adhd / asd / and so forth.

Staying away from , Facebook & deleting the app. I go though browser. But only to see my nieces and nephews photos. My whole journey of becoming a better version of me still with the ASD/ADHD. Was my fitness & this blog, staying away from negatives ( all forms ). Keeping the two friends i have. And becoming sober. My ASD can only be managed and thats is what I have been doing since 2018 and writing this blog. I do what I can ( surviving in the NT world ). Like lego it was not built for us we have to work around it. And I do that.

Having an adhd diagnosis 2021. I could get medication but it don’t fix cure and make me NT. Its a little P.A in my head for 6hrs and it make me ( well my experience) productive etc. But than it wears off and hello chaotic kerri. And its better than feck all. It helps at least.

So getting back to said headline, keyboard warrior. I had one inbox me on twitter. Saying oh I have aspergers too ( now known as ASD). But don’t base your identity around it.

And this where someone has just assumed and jumped on the bandwagon of I think I know you and this is what I think. Well I got news for you, you don’t know me, don’t assume that you do or think you do. And just don’t jump in my inbox with this negativity thought.

Because something went wrong or is bad in your life. Or you have issues and problems. I am not a digital punchbag to throw you negative thoughts about. Maybe your having a bad day I don’t know..

Many years ago I would respond to things like this and go off the handle but I’ve learnt from ant Middleton..you can’t fight a negative with a negative and its purely not worth it. What am I going to get out of it ( nothing). He thinks I’m a fish and going to take the bait.. I am not.. and since ant Middleton books the fear bubble & zero negativity. And also david goggins you can’t hurt me. And Buddhism 14 years plus. And jocko willink speechs. I’ve combined all my reading knowledge. And have come to respond like this. Ie to myself. I could get angry i could be stressed. And I could let it ruin my day. But i don’t.

These days I sit back block and don’t respond. I come here to the blog and talk to all of you about it and my experience and explain it best as I can. And I go on with my day. A wee happy irish lass in her postive bubble.

So If you think you message or comment has done me damage or hurt my said feelings..Well better luck next time. I get these day in and day out. Its like fan mail by trolls.. I am not going to entertain the idea or you.

Anyway I love you all 🖤

P.s a quote / lyric from Norway vibey Queen

I love who I see looking at me, in the mirror

Sigrid / mirror