I’ve come to discover after many years of not wanting or liking or the desire to have sex . I’ve never enjoyed it and its took me 2 years of being single and the feeling of a chore to have sex . I don’t like it .. I found it in this asexual discovery I am aromatic mean like you don’t desire want sex yes I am lesbian who is asexuel . Like I say slow brain process. I am getting used to my new discovery and embracing it. I’ve only told 2 friends who I trust not really ready to announce it to anyone yet for many reasons . The reaction I get or how people will take . It’s not about the negatives if people do disagree but to be honest I could not care less . Sex is not everything and the be all and end all .. there has always been a missing piece to me and I’ve never figured out why ..and now since this discovery I feel 100 percent complete . I am excited scared nervous because I am pursuing something new and life is all about the adventure after all . This is a new chapter in my life